Money never sleeps, and neither do entrepreneurs

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Despite guidelines that say we need to get a good night’s sleep regularly, every successful person will know that it isn’t always possible. There’s deadlines, conference calls with people in other time zones, late night coaching with people who need that bit of extra support, family to see and spend time with and of course the inevitable travel across the globe.

Everything takes time. In this blog I am going to be sharing some tips on how to get by on less sleep than is recommended!

Money never sleeps. This is a phrase I use regularly. Money likes to move, it like energy behind it. Money doesn’t work a 9-5. It doesn’t sleep.

IMoney never sleeps, and neither do entrepreneurs

IMoney never sleeps, and neither do entrepreneurs

Well the truth, is, more often than not, neither do entrepreneurs.

Anyone who works for themselves or is in the business of being an entrepreneur will know that every now and then a little extra help is needed to get through the day.

Here are my most tried and tested strategies:

Firstly…

Take a cold shower. A cold shower will kick start your system – particularly your natural fight / flight response, which will enable you to feel a bit more alert, pumped up and ready for the day ahead.

Next…

Do some deep breathing. Take five minutes before beginning your day and really focus on your breath. Create in slowly through your nose for a count of eight, hold for eight, breathe out for eight and then count to eight before creating in and repeating the process again. Repeat this five times. It will enable you to both increase and decrease your heart rate. Just make sure you stop if you start to feel unwell for whatever reason.

When you sit down…

I've learned various ways to stay alert and focused even when busy with lots of events and travel

I’ve learned various ways to stay alert and focused even when busy with lots of events and travel

Expose yourself to some light. If you can, work by a window with as much natural light as possible and even better, get yourself outside for a walk to keep yourself alert. The more light you can expose yourself to, the more awake you will feel.

As lunchtime approaches…

Eat little. Fight the urge to fill up on a large meal. You may be attracted to calorie rich foods and big portions, however this is more likely to send you to sleep. Instead… eat small portions of protein rich food such as chicken or eggs, which will give you energy but not leave you feeling bloated. And avoid sugar if you can, because the inevitable blood sugar crash will most definitely leave you wishing for your bed!

Throughout the day…

Rehydrate and limit your caffeine intake. Drink lots of pure, filtered water and if you must, drink caffeine in small mugs at 3 to 4 hourly intervals. A little coffee can help us focus whereas too much is going to cause anxiety.

 

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My new book The MAP Addiction is out soon, and shares many more success stories like these.

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WOW! Our new MAPPY Life charity

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I genuinely wondered how MyAdvertisingPays (MAP) as a company could get any better, but once again I’m blown away.

So, let me introduce to you MAPPY Life – a charity set up by MAPPERS who want to use their knowledge, time and expertise to make a difference.

Here is what they say:

“There is so much misery in this world and unfortunately, there are always the weakest who have to bear the brunt, especially innocent children and young people. It should be a great challenge for us all to do something about it and help. For this reason, we have established “MAPPY LIFE” a charity of the MAP in which we put a lot of heart, soul and passion. We want to support projects and programmes around the world.”

MAPPY Life - a charity set up by MAPPERS who want to use their knowledge, time and expertise to make a difference

MAPPY Life – a charity set up by MAPPERS who want to use their knowledge, time and expertise to make a difference

In the future, the MAP Charity “MAPPY LIFE” will support:

-Projects which initiate lasting changes

-Innovative Help for people by people at national and international level

-Support of educational projects

-Improving health

-Promotion of equal opportunities

-Sustainable use of resources

Why is it so important to give back? 

“We make a living by what we GET, but we make a life by what we GIVE.”

Winston Churchill

Studies have regularly shown that people or organisations who give back benefit in many ways. They demonstrate a commitment to making a real, lasting impact in the world, and by setting up a charity, the business is able to choose who to target these resources to. I think that’s PHENOMENAL. We also get to strengthen communities, connect with a wider number of people than before and to show leadership in our field.

There is a reason that Tony Robbins, the international trainer and life coach, puts ‘contribution’ at the pinnacle of his list of 6 human psychological needs. It is because he recognises that we all have the need to have love and security – but once those needs are met we search for something greater. A deeper meaning to life. And we achieve that through contribution, by helping others.

In addition, as our consciousness raises as a human race, we are inevitably more attracted to integrity – whether that it is in our teachers, financial institutions, supermarkets, or teachers. We look for people who embody these qualities because more and more we want to align ourselves with the types of companies and people that share our values.

It is my belief that MyAdvertisingPays (MAP) has demonstrated here an important step, a mark in the sand if you like, of the type of company it wants to be.. not only to be seen as. Many organisations take some time before setting up a system where they can give back, however MyAdvertisingPays (MAP) has not hung around

With this type of ethic, I know for sure that the business will continue to attract the right type of person, and so the energy will become more pure and more positive.

Because when you have the right people in your team, there is no stopping you.

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My new book The MAP Addiction is out soon, and shares many more success stories like these.

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My BEST Millionaires Mentoring Call EVER!

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It’s just 24 hours since my BEST Millionaires Mentoring Call EVER! If you missed it this time around, make sure you don’t miss out. You can click on the link below to download and listen back.

I share the secrets of how to achieve success on my weekly Millionaires Mentoring Calls

I share the secrets of how to achieve success on my weekly Millionaires Mentoring Calls

Warning: this recording contains highly addictive information that is likely to help you become a MILLIONAIRE! Only listen if you want to become wealthy and successful. If you do not want to change your life, then click off this screen NOW. This call is not for you.

I repeat: ONLY listen to this call if you truly want success, wealth, unlimited income, millionaires income, happiness & a truly fulfilled life)

My advice is to LISTEN to this call DAILY on repeat.

Obviously it doesn’t beat listening live ad feeling the energy of the group, however you’ll still be able to hear the training and receive the learning. Just make sure that you have a pen and paper handy to make lots of notes. You’ll learn so much more that way.

Why was it my BEST mentoring call ever?

One listener, MyAdvertisingPays (MAP) Affiliate John Robinson of Berkshire said:

“Last night’s mentoring call with Simon was something else. I’ve been dialling into the calls since I joined the business back in 2014 and I’m ALWAYS impressed, but last night it felt as though Simon had upped his game EVEN FURTHER. With every cell in his body, Simon knows he is helping people to turn their lives around. This is a man who oozes confidence in his own abilities, and as a result is able to inspire others to greatness. I left the call feeling inspired, pumped, and ready for action”.

We had people calling in from all over the world, demonstrating that the vision to take MyAdvertisingPays (MAP) to the truly international stage in 2016 is already happening.

On the call, I gave a brief update of where MyAdvertisingPays (MAP) is right now.

Because…

2016 is absolutely off to a flying start. 

For those of you who haven’t logged onto my calls before, they are all about the mentoring of a millionaire, and how you can achieve your dreams and goals.

2016 is DEFINITELY the Year of the MAP!

2016 is DEFINITELY the Year of the MAP!

If you master yourself and your mind you will master your life. We have to accept that money is crucial in this life and we have the easiest money system out there.

Delete the excuses in you so that you can have the life you want. When you don’t have to think about money you can have a fulfilled life. As leaders we need to get in the zone and think, eat and sleep what we are doing.

So get focused, and stop the distractions. Stop wasting time. Stop watching TV. When you watch TV you are watching others become rich and achieve their dreams. Start creating your own dreams instead.

I gave a summary of updates

We’ve recently had Regional and National Training in Blackburn, and then the PHENOMENAL Alexander Vitocco presented a workshop in Solihull. For those of you who don’t know, Alex is one of the number one Life Coaches in the WORLD, and his involvement is testament to the phenomenal growth of this company.

The world class Alexander Vitocco sharing his wisdom at his My Vision workshop on Saturday

The world class Alexander Vitocco sharing his wisdom at his My Vision workshop on Saturday

As 2016 continues, we are going truly international with events planned in Australia and New Zealand… the Event calendar is filling up.

All this, and we have only just begun.

There are already 7 millionaires with MyAdvertisingPays (MAP) and I believe there will be 50 more in 2016. We are making history with the unique profit share system, paying out 72 times today.

My advice is, get started, don’t delay, money likes speed. It’s simple.

What does it take to get to the next level? 

Listen to my next call, get to the next event to find out. You’ll be surrounded by people you can learn from.

Get ADDICTED! 

My suggestion to you is this: become ADDICTED to buying Credit Packs and then become ADDICTED to helping others. And make sure that you share this call with your teams prospects and members.

I am ADDICTED to MyAdvertisingPays

I am ADDICTED to MyAdvertisingPays

See you at the next MyAdvertisingPays (MAP) event. Visit www.MapEvents.info

Have the most phenomenal day EVER,

Simon Stepsys 

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My new book The MAP Addiction is out soon, and shares many more success stories like these.

My new book The MAP Addiction is out soon, and shares many more success stories like these.

Last but not least, my new book, The MAP Addiction! is getting close to release! If you would like to be first on the list to receive a copy then send an email to TheMapAddiction@gmail.com with your name and ‘Reserve me a copy of The MAP Addiction’ in the subject line, and you will be amongst the first to know.

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2016 is off to a PHENOMENAL start

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Events are essential if you want to build your MAP business.

Events are a MUST in this industry because they create BELIEF

 

And I wouldn’t have expected anything less! 

We are just two weeks into January 2016 and I’m literally blown away by the energy and pace at which MyAdvertisingPays (MAP) is growing.

You only have to look at the frequency of impressive events that have been taking place across the United Kingdom alone, in such a short space of time.

At the beginning of the month, I hosted a local, intimate event in Nantwich. I love hosting these local events, the intimacy of the venue encourages lots of questions from the audience and people get the quality time to share their experiences.

Then by contrast, we had the JAM PACKED, ROCKING London event which was also streamed live via Periscope to those MAPPERS who missed out on getting a ticket. IAnd whilst I love the small events, these bigger events really are where the magic happens. The energy in the room is electric, with members feeling the love and support of their MyAdvertisingPays (MAP) family.

Next up was the FRIST CLASS event in Blackburn on the 15th January, where our National Leadership got together to discuss and plan for the future of the business. Let me say this: there are so many exciting developments taking place behind the scenes. Make sure you stay up to date with the regular communications. 2016 is going to be AMAZING.

This meeting was followed by a MyAdvertisingPays (MAP) presentation and training, hosted by Josette Lungaro. Thank you for organising such an incredible day Josette. YOU ROCK.

And today, what can I say? Today has seen incredible training by the world class Alexander Vitocco in Solihull, who has been presenting his Life Success series. Today’s workshop was aptly titled ‘My Vision’ and the learning that each and every participant has taken away is going to stay with them for years to come.

The world class Alexander Vitocco sharing his wisdom at today’s event

The world class Alexander Vitocco sharing his wisdom at today’s event

Thank you Alexander for your time, and for sharing your unique insights with us. You are a TRUE LEGEND.

 

And all of this in just two weeks. That’s incredible. Just think what the rest of 2016 has in store. It is going to be incredible.

What have you been doing with your days? Have they been as mind-blowing, enriching and productive as these described here?

My guess is no!

In this industry, events are a MUST. If you are a member of MyAdvertisingPays (MAP) – or even if you aren’t – you need to be getting yourself to these events on a regular basis.

How many times do I have to say it?

Get yourself aligned and focus on what you truly want in life. Be around successful people and some of it will rub off on you.

FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT. Live in your vision.

FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT. Live in your vision.

 

Get to the next MyAdvertisingPays (MAP), visit www.MapEvents.info.

See you there,

Simon Stepsys

 

 

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The MAP Addiction! A MUST read

My new book The MAP Addiction is out soon, and shares many more success stories like these.

My new book The MAP Addiction is out soon, and shares many more success stories like these.

Last but not least, my new book, The MAP Addiction! is getting close to release! If you would like to be first on the list to receive a copy then send an email to TheMapAddiction@gmail.com with your name and ‘Reserve me a copy of The MAP Addiction’ in the subject line, and you will be amongst the first to know.

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Play the lottery or join MyAdvertisingPays?

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Did you play the lottery last night? I didn’t.

Do you know why? I like to keep my destiny in my own hands. I NEVER play the lottery.

Instead, I work, train, develop, teach, mentor and click my way to financial freedom!

In my recent blog post, “The difference between the rich and poor mentality”, I talked about how average people play the lottery, whereas rich people know that destiny is in their own hands. If you haven’t already read this blog post, I would highly recommend you take a look.

There were two winners last night, sharing the record-breaking £66million jackpot.

But there were also a lot of losers! 

Camelot recently changed the rules so that instead of choosing six numbers from 49, you choose six numbers from 59.

They have claimed that this increases the chances of winning, a claim which has been refuted and disproven by mathematicians.

A quick calculation shows the new odds of becoming a millionaire by playing the lottery have gone from one in 14 million to one in 45 million.

It’s difficult to comprehend such odds because the numbers are so large, and so let’s look at what this means in real terms:

  • You have more chance of being struck by lightening than winning the lottery;
  • You have more change of walking up to a stranger in a foreign country and correctly guessing their phone number than you do of winning the lottery;
  • You have more chance of giving birth to three identical triplets than winning the lottery;
  • You have more chance of becoming an astronaut than winning the lottery;
  • You have more chance of being crushed by a meteorite than winning the lottery.

And yet people continue to spend their money on it, paying their £2 and hoping, wishing and dreaming that they are one of the lucky ones. They put their destiny into the hands of fate, with little to no chance of success.

Let’s recap on what my blog post said about the rich and poor mentality:

“People who play the lottery are waiting for something – whether that be fate or good luck – to come and rescue them from their lot. It possibly goes some way to explaining why the same people also believe that being wealthy is down to luck. Whilst they are passively wishing their lives away and putting their fate in the hands of the Gods, rich people are planning, problem solving and strategically orchestrating their success.” 

And now let’s take a moment to look at the figures for MyAdvertisingPays

In two short years, there are already FIVE MAP millionaires (Results not typical), and that is from a pool of under 300,000 MyAdvertisingPays members.

I know where my money would go!

there are already FIVE MAP millionaires (Results not typical)

There are already FIVE MAP millionaires (Results not typical)

Not only that, the five people in question worked their way to the top, they did it for themselves, without relying on luck or destiny.

It doesn’t take a mathematician to tell us that the odds of success within MyAdvertisingPays are far greater than winning the lottery.

So what are you waiting for? Get signed up to this amazing opportunity.

Be the best, 

Simon Stepsys 

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Pay attention to who your energy increases around

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Your body will give you clues as to who you need to be around and who you should avoid

Your body will give you clues as to who you need to be around and who you should avoid

Most of us will have had the experience of meeting someone for the first time and having an instinct that we would like to continue to have this person in our lives. For whatever reason, we connected, and we know on a gut level that this person is going to serve us on our life’s journey.

It might be that the conversation flowed, that we felt lighter or ‘lifted’ as a result of what they said to us, perhaps they offered help or assistance, or they were prepared to put you in touch with someone who they know who could help.

All of these surface reasons to point to something much deeper going on. Carl Jung, one of our most influential psychotherapists, called this synchronicity. According to Jung,

Synchronicity which holds that events are “meaningful coincidences” if they occur with no causal relationship, yet seem to be meaningfully related”.

In our day to day lives, we talk about this phenomena as ‘fate’ or ‘coincidence’, however it’s possible that a much larger plan is unfolding for the universe, and that the people, situations, and even challenges that come our way are all part of a journey towards greater enlightenment or consciousness.

It seems like our bodies know at a deep level when we meet with someone with whom we can develop.

So what is this feeling and how do we learn to pay attention to it:

You can begin to listen to the symptoms in your body that tell you ‘something isn’t right’. It might be that you feel tired around a particular person, which could be your body’s way of telling you that they are taking more energy than you are prepared to give. Staying around a person or situation that makes you feel this way for too long can have a negative effect on your health, so it’s good to heed the signs early and get out.

Conversely, your body will let you know when a situation is right. You’ll feel good, healthy, alive and focused.

Use this feeling to guide you in decision making in life. There’s nothing wrong with planning and decision making based upon logic and analysis, but often, if you let your body be your guide, you won’t go far wrong.

How do you feel when you are around your fellow MAPPERS? We often talk about the positive energy in the room, the electricity that people can not only feel but can almost SEE! It’s incredible. That’s how we all know we are in the right place at the right time.

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The MAP Addiction! A MUST read

Last but not least, my new book, The MAP Addiction! is getting close to release! If you would like to be first on the list to receive a copy then send an email to TheMapAddiction@gmail.com with your name and ‘Reserve me a copy of The MAP Addiction’ in the subject line, and you will be amongst the first to know.

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Choose wisely what you feed your mind

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You are the books you read, the movies you watch, the music you listen to, the people you spend time with, the conversations you engage in. Choose wisely what you feed your mind.

Our outer experiences shape so much of our internal reality, yet we regularly surround ourselves with negativity. We wake up and listen to the news, which undoubtedly has an effect on how we feel, we watch violent films or play video games where the goal is to kill or defeat an enemy.

Is it any wonder that we can find ourselves trapped in a cycle of negativity?

I teach my students that if they want to become a millionaire, then they need to hang around millionaires. We become like the people we associate with.

Think clearly about what you want to become and position yourself accordingly.

It sounds obvious, but so many of us get thing wrong.

Firstly, think about who you want to be, what you want to become and what you want to attract into your life.

If you want to learn how to be rich, then don’t just sit around wishing for it to happen, go out and speak to the people who’ve made it, study them and learn what they do differently.

And then most crucially, take action. 

Start to do what rich people do. Because you won’t learn how to be rich from the same people you’ve been poor with all of your life.

So, make sure your associations are strong, ensure that the people you surround yourself with are positive, successful people who you can learn from, who can inspire you and who want you to go on and achieve greater and better things in life.

Successful people will want you to be successful too, because these are the people who instinctively know that by helping others to achieve great things, they in turn are helping themselves.

The same goes for the books you choose to read or the films you watch.

Take time to consider what you allow into your life, because it will have a mindset. Learn to distinguish between what is going to serve you and what is going to waste your time. If you’re about to buy a book, give some thought to the content and ask yourself if it is going to help you get to where you need to be. Is it worthy of your time? Will it develop you into the person you want to be? Does it assist or obstruct your journey?

Your time is precious, and so spend it wisely.

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Be sure SIMON STEPSYS is your sponsor and I’ll send you free bonuses worth more than $2,000. In addition to this, you’ll be working directly with a REAL INTERNET MILLIONAIRE!

The MAP Addiction! A MUST read

Last but not least, my new book, The MAP Addiction! is getting close to release! If you would like to be first on the list to receive a copy then send an email to TheMapAddiction@gmail.com with your name and ‘Reserve me a copy of The MAP Addiction’ in the subject line, and you will be amongst the first to know.

Pre-order your copy of The MAP Addiction by emailing TheMAPAddiction@gmail.com

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Why your attempts at building rapport may be failing

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Are you trying your best to build meaningful and effective business relationships with your customers or prospects, but still not getting the results you would hope for? In this article, I am going to be sharing with you three key reasons why your attempts at building rapport could be failing you without you even knowing.

There's much more to rapport than a smile

There’s much more to rapport than a smile

We all need to build rapport 

As business leaders – and indeed human beings – we are all accustomed to meeting other people and finding the need to quickly establish a relationship, or at least find common ground upon which to base a conversation.

Quickly building rapport is something taught in many leadership and communication training programmes, and the advice is usually to hone your listening skills, use mirroring in your body language, listen effectively, and take a genuine interest in what the other person is saying rather than what you want to say.

But what if there were a number of other key ways to have good communication with other people, ways that are not usually taught on

It’s like that you’re not using those techniques, meaning that your attempts to build rapport with people – whilst you’re ticking all of the usual boxes – are not as effective as they could be.

So what could be going wrong? Or more importantly, what could you be doing better?

Give the other person an ‘out’

Have you ever been approached in the high street by someone trying to sell you something? Or perhaps a friend turns up at your house out of the blue whilst you are incredibly busy. In these situations, someone is having an unplanned impact on how you are spending your time and it can feel quite uncomfortable. Bear in mind that this is what you are doing when you approach a customer or prospect. Switch back to that person in the High Street or your friend. If they outlined at the start exactly how much time they wanted from you, it may not mean you were entirely happy with being approached out of the blue, however it would allow you to feel more comfortable that you would have an opportunity to end the conversation at some point in the near future. Once people have an ‘out’, they begin to feel less trapped and can relax. So when you begin a new conversation, be clear that it will take less than 30 seconds and make sure you stick to it. Don’t keep people talking longer than they want to be there, they are no less likely to buy from you and will ultimately be switched off if they begin to feel uncomfortable. Which wastes your time as well as theirs.

Set your own ego and agenda to one side.

Good communication happens when two or more people exchange information in a way that respects the speaker. The listeners focus on what is being said, digest the information, and respond appropriately. What can tend to happen instead is that the person who isn’t speaking is just waiting for their turn to speak, at which point they will come in and respond with a related story based on their own experience. In this situation I would encourage you, when it is your turn to speak, to resist the temptation to talk about yourself and instead to remain focused on the other person by asking them further questions to deepen your understanding of what they are saying and allow them to feel heard. It’s not often people have the experience of feeling genuinely listened to, and so they will immediately warm to you as a result.

Make use of our in built desire to assist 

Humans know at an instinctual level that if they help out their fellow human beings when asked, they when the time comes for them to ask for assistance it is most likely to be provided. We tend to feel a sense of disappointment when we say no to someone, and even mores when the person we say no to is visibly disappointed. In the most sincere and genuine way (you’ll know what works for you and your business) ask for assistance from people when you can – this might come in the form of asking a prospect to hand your business card to someone who may be interested in MyAdvertisingPays, or you might ask for some feedback or a testimonial. Be direct about what it is you want.

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The MAP Addiction! A MUST read

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2016 will be the year I…

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What do you want to achieve in 2016? What are your goals? Are you dreaming big? Are you planning on achieving financial freedom, getting to Diamond level in MyAdvertisingPays, owning that dream home or car?

You can achieve anything you set your mind to.

Isn’t that wonderful?

Think carefully about what you want, because you can achieve anything you put your mind to

Think carefully about what you want, because you can achieve anything you put your mind to

Now for the reality. 

Because I bet you’ve wished for and resolved to achieve all of those things in previous years, and after just a few days, weeks, or months, you forget what you were focused on and life returns to normal.

But guess what? I know why! 

It’s because in every year up until now you’ve been focusing too much on what you want and not enough on how you will get there.

So after a while, your goals have been shelved because you became focused on what you wanted, rather than how you were going to do it in the first place.

Massive action equals massive results 

I’m a great believer in massive action getting massive results. The dream is important of course, but without the action it’ll remain just that.

From sweeping the roads to internet millionaire - massive action got me some MASSIVE results

From sweeping the roads to internet millionaire – massive action got me some MASSIVE results

So before anything else, ask yourself this important question: 

Does my goal or resolution invigorate and energise me?

Is it something you can see yourself working towards for the next 12 months?

If you find that you’re not inspired as you answer these questions, then you might want to reconsider the goal. Perhaps you are trying to aim for something that is actually someone else’s idea of what you should be doing?

Make your goals PURE AND CLEAR

You’ve probably heard that a goal needs to be SMART (Specific, Measurable, Attractive, Realistic, Timed), however you may not have previously heard of:

PURE

P – Positively Stated
U – Understood
R – Relevant
E – Ethical

CLEAR

C – Challenging
L – Legal
E – Environmentally Sound
A – Appropriate
R – Recorded

As you set your goal, keep it PURE AND CLEAR.

Keep thinking until you find a goal you are inspired by, something that you want and something you’re prepared to commit to for a considerable amount of time.

Your goal needs to inspire you

Your goal needs to inspire you

Once you have your goal, I want you to announce it to everyone who matters to you. Because research suggests that when we tell people what we are aiming for, we are more likely to commit to achieving it.

Now get planning 

Think about how long it is going to take you to achieve your goal and then work backwards. Think about what you’ll need to do on a daily or weekly basis in order to keep moving forwards.

When I decided to write my first book, I had a target of how long I wanted it to take and then thought about what I would need to do daily and weekly in order to make it happen? And guess what, my book, The MAP Addiction is finished and in the process of final sign off, ready to be printed in early 2016.

Visualise 

Aside from the day to day actions that will take you closer and closer to achieving your goal, you will definitely want to try some visualisation techniques to solidify your focus.

I find that using imagery is a powerful technique for helping you commit to your goals or resolutions. In particular, I picture myself having achieved my goals and what that will look, feel and smell like. In m soon to be released  book, The MAP Addiction, I describe how I have a five year goal to own a yacht in Monaco.

And MyAdvertisingPays is the vehicle that has made all of this possible.

I know exactly how I am going to achieve this, and I regularly take the time to visualise myself sitting in the sun, enjoying a cigar and some champagne, surrounded by other happy, relaxed and successful people enjoying life.

So, get going… get goal setting. And get achieving. FOCUS FOCUS FOCUS. 

Have the best year ever! 

Simon Stepsys.

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Pre-order your copy of The MAP Addiction by emailing TheMAPAddiction@gmail.com

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Gratitude is for life, not just for Christmas.

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Did you know that there is scientific evidence that suggests that gratitude is deeply linked to many aspects of our physical and emotional wellbeing?

Given the importance of gratitude then, surely giving thanks for everything that is going well in our lives once a year isn’t nearly enough. Surely, our goal should be to change our deeply ingrained behaviour and beliefs about our ‘lot’ in life, and take the opportunity to give thanks on a more regular, if not daily basis?

Because gratitude is for life, not just for Christmas. 

Can you honestly say that you make time in your day to write down in a gratitude journal the things that you could easily take for granted, and then genuinely take the opportunity to give thanks for these things?

Such is the importance of gratitude, that it has been spotted in our not too distant animal relatives, the chimpanzee. According to primatologist Frans de Waal, chimpanzees demonstrated what looked to be gratitude to other members of their group who had recently groomed them by offering to share their food.

From sweeping the roads to internet millionaire - Thank you MyAdvertisingPays

From sweeping the roads to internet millionaire – Thank you MyAdvertisingPays

But what is gratitude? 

According to Time Magazine online:

Psychologists view it as being able to maintain a world view that appreciates the positive.  That may sound like optimism, but unlike simply expecting the good, “appreciation” requires recognizing that happy outcomes are not just the result of your own hard work or moral uprightness, but depend on the efforts of others and, for the more spiritually-minded, on divine providence as well.

Don’t just take my word for it…

Back to the Time Magazine article above… which says:

“A study tracking feelings of thanks and school satisfaction among a group of sixth and seventh graders showed. In the study, 221 children were assigned to write either a daily list of five things they were most grateful for, or of the hassles they experienced, or no list at all. The gratitude group reported greater satisfaction with school three weeks later compared to the other kids, especially those who focused on hassles.  That’s a potentially significant benefit since contentment at school is linked to academic performance and dissatisfaction is correlated with antisocial behavior like drinking and drug use. The authors write, “[T]hese findings suggest that gratitude has both immediate and long-term effects on positive psychological functioning.”

How can we develop a greater sense of gratitude? 

One of the most useful and the most common ways to improve gratitude, and one which I have found useful for many years, is to make a list in a journal of everything I feel grateful for.

I would suggests investing in a special notebook for these purposes, and keeping the notebook only for this (so no writing task lists or shopping lists in there!).

Sometimes I also share my list on Social Media, particularly when I am giving thanks to specific people who have helped me or been exceptional in some way.

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I want to hear what you are thankful for.

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And just in case you don’t already know, I show, teach, coach and mentor people on how never to work for paper again.

I believe being a top earner means a chance to give back, and help others achieve their goals. I take great pride and receive a joy that can only come from helping others live their dreams.

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