How to start your self development journey

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How to start your self development journey

I have been on a personal development journey for as long as I can remember.

People are always asking me how to get started with personal development and because it has always been a part of who I am, I find it difficult to know the exact point I began and therefore, how it actually started.

In this blog post, I am going to be sharing some thoughts on how I believe it is possible to get started – and how – at any time in your life. No matter how old you are, who you are, or your background.

How to change

In my experience of teaching, training and mentoring, I would say that the majority of people want to improve themselves in some way or another. It could be a lack of time or motivation that stops them, lack of confidence or self-esteem, or plain old procrastination.

Here’s an overview of the things you’ll need to consider doing, and the mindsets you’ll need to adopt, if you are truly ready to start your personal development journey:

Self awareness. Before you can change, you have to know who you currently are. Your habits, thought patterns, mental blocks, as well as your values and motivators. Take an honest look at who you are and where you are at right now in life, and then think about what you will need to do, and also what you will need to sacrifice, in order to become the person you want to be.

Seek feedback. Change takes time – if you are going to truly change that is. And the chances are you’re not always going to get it right first time. Speak to people you trust and ask for their feedback about how you are getting along. Listen to their responses, don’t try and justify yourself if they say something you don’t like. Take it on board, and then aim to do better next time. This is what I call being Coachable. If you want to learn more about this, then have a read of my recent blog post, “Coachable? The five traits of coachability.” 

Find a role model or mentor. Seek out someone who has been through a similar personal development journey to the one you are wishing to get started on. Contact them, explain what your plans are and ask them for a little time and help. Chances are they will be so flattered that they say yes!

Read! You are what you feed your mind. I recommend that you take very seriously this advice, because there is nothing more vital to personal development than learning from the Masters who have gone before you.

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A text I recommend to all of my students for their personal development journey

The best way to make a solid and significant start is to study and apply The Master Key System, which you can get either in book format for around £10 or from the App store for even less. (In the 1990s, The Master Key System was sold for $1,395 in audiocassette format.) This is what I still read and take inspiration from right up to the current day. Don’t underestimate the power of its content – it’s worth millions and is being read by billionaires.
The Master Key System isn’t a book that you pick up and read from start to end, put down and move onto the next. Rather it’s something you read, listen to, study and then apply to your life time and time again, over and over. You’re never ‘done’. Make it a part of your everyday life. Take it with you in all formats – try the audio book for when you’re on the go. I’ve also got The Master Key System in ebook format, as hard copy and as an App. It’s only 175 pages long, so it’s easy to carry around.
One of the best ways to study The Master Key System is by email. If you subscribe to receive it in this format you’ll be drip-fed the information into your inbox. If this is something you want to set up for yourself, visit www.PsiTek.net and type ‘The Master Key System’ into the search bar. You will then have the option to subscribe by email. My advice is that when they start to arrive you save, star or favourite all of the emails so that you can quickly go back to them, because each and every one is so powerful.
(On www.PsiTek.net all of the books are free – and you’ll have access to information on spirituality, the mind and personal growth. You can download all of the books about mind power and dynamic thought, at no cost. It’s endless!)
Ultimately, if you’re applying The Master Key System you’ll be getting a lot of quality information. It’ll ask you questions that challenge you to think deeply and in ways you may not have done up until this point in your life. See it as a home study course, and bear in mind that you can’t learn it overnight – or even in a month.
I’m still learning and applying it today, and I’ve been studying it for years.The Master Key System says you can master anything in your life – nances, of course, being particularly relevant due to the nature of this book and the interests of anyone reading it. It’s very big and powerful, and it will serve you on your personal development journey.
I look forward to hearing how you get along.
Wishing you luck, 
Simon Stepsys 

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Coachable? The five traits of Coachability

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Are you coachable? Actually, let me rephrase that question, are you REALLY coachable?

I teach, train and mentor people to become the 3Cs. Coachable, consistent and committed.

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Be coachable if you want to drive cars like this

People who are coachable share some distinctive character traits, and in this blog post I am going to be sharing with you THE MOST IMPORTANT ones that are particularly relevant to MyAdvertisingPays (MAP). In future blog posts you can learn more about commitment and consistency.

Be honest with yourself, if you are coachable then you will be regularly working on yourself and developing these traits. Because if you aren’t coachable, then it really doesn’t matter how effective your coach is – they could be the best in the world. If you’re not coachable, then things aren’t going to change.

What are the traits of coachability?

To be coachable, you need to be a good listener. This means listening to what your coach or mentor is saying with an open mind, as opposed to secretly thinking ‘I know this already’ whilst they are talking, or even worse, just waiting for your turn to talk. Active listening is vital, and something I’m going to be blogging about within the next day. Keep an eye on my blog for this.

To be coachable, you need to be willing to take feedback graciously. Coaching is about upping your game, enhancing your performance, becoming better, achieving your goals. And at times that is going to get touch. You’re not going to get everything right all of the time. That’s life. The key here is, when it gets tough, when you make a mistake, when you could be better or have done something better, how do you respond? If you accept feedback graciously, learn from it, make improvements and move on, then you’re someone who is coachable.

To be coachable, you need to have an open mind. Many of us think we have an open mind, but when it comes to the crunch, we fall back into old habits and patters of behaviour. Being coachable means being willing to embrace change and new ideas. Take a look at my blog post about habits of a winning mindset if you’re interested in developing your knowledge of this topic further.

To be coachable, you need to be an action taker. So, you’ve found someone who you want to receive coaching from. You share with them your goals, ambitions and plans. You come up with a series of actions that will bring you closer to your dreams and after that discussion. You. Do. Nothing. Do you think that makes you coachable? No, me neither.

To be coachable, you need to trust the process. Of course, it is vital to choose a coach who you believe in, someone who is living the life you want or has achieve the success you desire. People who are coachable have faith, they trust the process, and in many ways will surrender control because they know that the true benefits of the change they are planning on bringing into their lives will be more apparent later on in the process.

What are your experiences of coaching?

I want to hear from you if you have had good or bad coaching in the past. What made it good and / or bad? And do you think your coachability was a factor?

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$3 Million Dollars in Career EARNINGS!

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Guess who has hit $3 Million Dollars in online advertising Career EARNINGS with MyAdvertisingPays (MAP)?

As of yesterday, I have literally SMASHED the $3 Million Dollar target I set for myself.

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And it feels PHENOMENAL! 

As the media’s attention turns to whether or not we’re heading for another sharp global recession (one day we are, one day we’re not), I have focused on taking responsibility for my own personal finances, and achieve TRUE FINANCIAL FREEDOM.

What does taking full responsibility mean and what has it meant for me? 

Responsibility is probably one of those words you’ve heard over and over – so much so that it can lose its meaning. Despite this, if you can master the skill of taking personal responsibility in every area of your life, there is so much potential for you to grow and develop, and ultimately allow yourself to live the life you want.

“Freedom is the will to be responsible to ourselves”
Friedrich Nietzsche

I would go as far as to say that personal responsibility is so integral to how things are in my life right now, that without it as a guiding principle, none of the other self development I have undertaken over the last 20 years would have had any impact.

Take for example The Master Key System. I have been a student of this programme for many years. On a surface level, I could have read the teachings and then gone about my day, complaining that nothing is changing. Or I could learn, and then do something about it. Because it is in the doing something about it that creates the conditions for change to occur.

Think about this: how many people do you know who sit around complaining about their lives and doing the same thing over and over, with the same results?

Its madness. 

So for me, taking responsibility means knowing in every cell in my body that nothing happens unless I get out of bed each morning with a goal, or a purpose, and then take MASSIVE ACTION to ensure that it happens.

And such is the commitment to this way of life, that taking action is the most natural thing in the world for me. How could it possibly be any other way?

So how do you go about it?

In theory its simple: you literally have the choice. Everything in life is a choice. You can choose to be responsible for you life, or you can choose to be one of those people who give their power over to other people or institutions. You could be like someone who plays the lottery – placing their fate in the hands of luck, hoping one day they will be saved. Is that how you want to live your life. Because that is the decision you are making each and every time you choose not to take responsibility.

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