4 ways to create a positive mindset

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4 ways to create a positive mindset

4 ways to create a positive mindset

People are always commenting upon how I have a positive mindset. They wonder whether I was born this way, and then they inevitably ask the question, ‘How can I develop a positive mindset?’ 

The answer is relatively simple, and in this blog post I am going to be sharing with you the 4 key ways that I have built and maintained a positive mindset throughout my life.

First things first, let me say this: my life has not been a bed of roses. I was not born into affluence. I haven’t ‘had it easy’… and therefore what I am about to share with you – in my opinion – carries more weight. Because these techniques have worked for me and they can work for you.

A positive mindset is available to anyone and everyone who wants one.

The question you need to ask yourself is: do you want it enough?

4 ways to create a positive mindset

Number 1 way to develop a positive mindset: Develop an attitude of gratitude.

Can you sing, or even better, dance in the rain? Can you look outside on what most people describe as a ‘horrible’ day and still see the beauty? Are you grateful for everything you have in life? Including your amazing body which keeps you alive without you having to do anything? If you can learn to be grateful for everything that is good, more good will come to you.

Number 2 way to develop a positive mindset: replace negative thoughts with positives.

To do this you’ll need to become aware of your thoughts and the language you use. When you notice yourself slipping into negativity, immediately replace negative thoughts with positive ones. As time progresses, I would recommend that you replace each negative thought with FIVE positive ones.

Number 3 way to develop a positive mindset: Surround yourself with the winners in life.

Notice who your energy increases around, and by comparison who it decreases around. You’ll have a gut sense of this in your body as well as in your mind – pay attention to it. You may become tired, bored or restless around certain people, whereas others can make you feel alive and full of energy.

As you develop along your personal development journey, you can actually be around negative people and not let them drain you, but in the first instance it is important to surround yourself with people who support your path and wish for you to do better.

We become like the people we hang around with and so choose your friends and acquaintances wisely.

Number 4 way to develop a positive mindset: Practice positive affirmations.

Spend some time each and every day affirming good things to yourself about yourself. Choose affirmations that are going to resonate and work for you. Some of my favourites are:

  • I help to create millionaires
  • I am successful
  • I am happy

Choose your own and repeat them often. In fact, you will also benefit from writing them out. Get yourself a nice notebook and a pen and enjoy the experience.

4 ways to create a positive mindset

If you loved this post, you may also be interested in an earlier blog post of mine – how to create a millionaire mindset. Click on this link to view and read.

Have the best, most awesome day EVER! 

Simon Stepsys.

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Surround yourself with positivity rather than dwelling in the negativity in life

Surround yourself with positivity rather than dwelling in the negativity in life

When thinking about or mentoring people who ask me how to deal with haters or negative people, I like to think of the 80:20 rule.

In life, business, work, relationships – everything – 80% of people will most likely warm to you, whereas 20% simply will not.

Think about it: that’s pretty great! 80% of people liking you is a statistic stacked in your favour.

However, people new to leadership, management or having a public profile will possibly encounter negativity in a way they have never experienced before, and some will find it very difficult to deal with. I’ve been in the business of online marketing for some time and have developed some great strategies and techniques for dealing with haters and negative people that I would like to share.

IGNORE.

Firstly, and most importantly, learn to switch off and ignore the comments and the negative things they say. Don’t let other people’s mindset dictate your own. It can be easy to get sucked in – and read what is being said about you, or the business, however remember that the more successful you are, the more that people will find ways to criticise. It’s a normal part of success – everything in life has its downside and for people who experience wealth or financial freedom, dealing with negativity is something they have to learn to do. Train yourself to think of the positives If you do happen to read something negative or you have an encounter with a hater, then immediately replace the negative comment with five positive ones.

For example:

MyAdvertisingPays is changing lives

• I am successful

• I am helping people to change their lives

MyAdvertisingPays is a legitimate business

MyAdvertisingPays is here to stay

Of course you can and will come up with your own statements, but for now just focus on getting into the habit of training your mind to focus on the positives. It takes time, but it’s worth the work.

Don’t retaliate or try to reason

People who are posting or saying negative things about you or the business have made up their minds. Whatever you say, they will either twist or disagree with, and so really, why bother trying? It’s a waste of your energy. Particularly when you consider that there are 7 billion other people on the planet who you can turn your attention to!

Last but not least – learn to love them!

It might sound strange, however find ways to be thankful for your haters. They give you publicity, which is a gift. They clearly feel you are important enough to spend time on. I often say to the people I mentor that if people aren’t asking for your autograph then you’re not working hard enough. Well it’s the same with negativity. If people aren’t looking at you with envy, then you’re not yet successful enough.

So let your haters drive you to greater success, greater integrity and make sure that you thank them along the way.

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